Honestly that’s me all the time. I do it for several reasons but I don’t necessarily get crazy enjoyment from it. I don’t hate it either, it’s just not like the best thing ever, y’know? And it’s not my partner, this has been my whole life. My body gets “enjoyment” as in, I can orgasm, but mentally I’m just like, meh.
I wouldn’t call a pathological aversion to sex a kink. It’s also not shaming to simply point out the existence of those who are grossed out by it for some reason or another.
Here’s what’s even weirder: imagine what you’re saying, but for sex instead.
Honestly that’s me all the time. I do it for several reasons but I don’t necessarily get crazy enjoyment from it. I don’t hate it either, it’s just not like the best thing ever, y’know? And it’s not my partner, this has been my whole life. My body gets “enjoyment” as in, I can orgasm, but mentally I’m just like, meh.
Sounds like you’re somewhat ace
Sure am!
Hey now, we don’t kink shame.
I wouldn’t call a pathological aversion to sex a kink. It’s also not shaming to simply point out the existence of those who are grossed out by it for some reason or another.
That’s all true, but I believe the comment you’re replying to is a joke about framing sex itself as a kink