Social media is on the decline. Instagram is all ads. No one’s posting on BeReal. TikTok is for influencers. The new place for sharing: group chats.

  • ArugulaZ
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    112 years ago

    Well, it sucks. A certain South African Dutch chump with a Napoleon complex is 90% of the reason why.

    • @[email protected]
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      22 years ago

      And I can’t be alone in finding Instagram’s UI to be terrible. They have to share some blame.

      • ArugulaZ
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        22 years ago

        I keep telling myself that I’ll spend time on Instagram, but I can never force myself to actually do it. Yeah, that interface is a confusing mess.

  • @[email protected]
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    82 years ago

    I have been wanting to get back to making stuff on social media but due to work and no longer being the IDGAF teenager I get nervous on what to talk about.

    Like I was hoping to do a podcast for my Facebook friends but I only uploaded one episode cause I want to do a few about how work sucks. But then I worry it’ll be depressing.

  • HexesofVexes
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    192 years ago

    I would argue that the quality of content is in decline more than numerical users. Also, the quantity of ads are much much higher, which hides what little good content there is.

    Mix that in with political splits in social media sites (from left leaning Lemmy to the Facebook right), and you generally find yourself in an echo chamber with little to surprise you, and a lot of things confirming what you already know.

  • @[email protected]
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    12 years ago

    What’s the over/under on this having been posted and inspired posts on literally every social media platform within an hour of publication, thus proving the headline ridiculous?

  • igorlogius
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    2 years ago

    if someone posts on social media and nobody reads it … does the poster even exist?

  • AutoTL;DRB
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    32 years ago

    This is the best summary I could come up with:


    Other apps like Dispo, Poparazzi, and Locket have all used various gimmicks to try and recapture social media’s halcyon days — each had a moment in the sun at the top of the US Apple app-store charts — but none have truly broken through.

    For instance, the content creator Nina Haines launched a group called SapphLit, a self-described “sapphic book club born out of the queer BookTok community.”

    Victoria Johnston, a 22-year-old software engineer, imagines the ideal social-media platform as a “safe space where people can just connect and you don’t feel pressured to have a big following or a presence or be really well known.”

    And as more users and creator communities migrate toward closed spaces, the behemoths like Instagram are also trying to capitalize on this reality by introducing features like paid-subscription services that offer exclusive group chats.

    Lia Haberman, an adjunct professor at UCLA Extension and an advisor for the American Influencer Council, said that Gen Alpha, the age cohort of 13 and younger, are “not embracing traditional social-media platforms and customs.”

    It’s hard to know how the change will affect the online atmosphere over the long term — some evidence suggests the shift will create a healthier digital experience, but it also risks further dividing people into like-minded echo chambers.


    The original article contains 2,197 words, the summary contains 214 words. Saved 90%. I’m a bot and I’m open source!

    • @[email protected]
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      372 years ago

      Hey, I take offense to that! I’m going to write a vitriolic response to your seemingly-normal-but-different-viewpoint-than-mine opinion where I’ll use non-applicable slurs and misinformation and then call you dumb if you post a sensible reply!

      • @[email protected]
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        32 years ago

        Hey, I take offence to your office! I’m going to write a nonsensical response that parallels your comment where I’ll use no sources and not really make any point whatsoever!

      • Poggervania
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        tfw you just stand on the sides and then meme on what’s happening with a lame joke instead of contributing your two cents on the socioeconomic practices that are happening in the US that are currently choking its working class to death

        lmaooooooo gottem

    • Nougat
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      102 years ago

      … real friends …

      I don’t understand.

      • @[email protected]
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        2 years ago

        Like text but with noises and fleshy.

        Edit: sometimes they congratulate you on the anniversary of exiting your mother’s birth canal.

  • AsunasPersonalAsst
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    32 years ago

    Mostly repost of things they didn’t make in an attempt to grab some ad revenue…

    Like why do I need to see 2 or 3 arborist reposts from ~3 accounts not owned or affiliated by such arborists?

    • gullible
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      142 years ago

      I know this conversation is had nearly daily here, but by fuck am I glad that the fediverse is so much less astroturfed than every other social media site.

      • Uranium3006OP
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        52 years ago

        we need to work on keeping it that way. we have the advantage with no corporations to silently manipulate us and we own the infrastructure, but we still gotta root out bot accounts and malicious instances

        • @[email protected]
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          52 years ago

          no corporations to silently manipulate us

          …yet!

          They are relentless! They will get here when it becomes meaningful enough. So yes I echo your sentiments that we need to do all we can to prepare for that day to defend this space.

    • insomniac_lemon
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      92 years ago

      My guess is they misspelled BeeReel, the social media for apiary and native plant enthusiasts.

    • @[email protected]
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      242 years ago

      It’s kinda niche, but it’s where you and your friends can only post once a day at a random time. But it’s all at the same time, so you kinda get a slice of life of what everyone is doing. I like it, it’s much worse for influencer type stuff, so everyone I know just uses it with their friends which is nice. It starts conversations that might not happen otherwise.

        • @[email protected]
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          72 years ago

          I’m not sure I understand the concept. So the app chooses a random time of day to send an alert, at which point everyone in a group gets to post whatever they want? When the window ends then there are no more posts until the next day? Are you in the groups with the kids?

          • @[email protected]
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            52 years ago

            You’re allowed to post later, though this will be visible with your post. Tbh I like it until now. It’s a good way to engage with my friends now that I only see them a few times a month. The friends I have on BeReal are generally respecting the rule that you either post at the moment BeReal asks you to or at the nearest moment where it’s okay to so. I won’t post at work, at the toilet, or in the shower or something. But I will do so after those moments of I’m doing something mundane like washing the dishes or cycling home. You’ll generally just get a sense of what your friends’ life’s like like normally, as well as the fun things they do like traveling or visiting some event.

            • @[email protected]
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              22 years ago

              Not at the toilet???

              Bro, do you even social media?

              Totally kidding, but I hate having to use that slash ess.

        • Chetzemoka
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          92 years ago

          You’re a good teacher, working around the things they find important in their lives. Thank you

        • @[email protected]
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          12 years ago

          That’s what I thought when I tried it last fall but it turns out that 99% of people live very boring lives or put very little effort into these no notice pictures. Browsing my feed was so dull, I lost interest quickly.

      • @[email protected]
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        02 years ago

        Holy crap that sounds godawful. Do what you’re doing and dance on command when the randomly timed notification comes in? Sounds fun to do on a lark when you open the app because you’re having a boring day or something, but as a daily thing?

    • @[email protected]
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      42 years ago

      Discord is better than IRC imo. I used IRC for a VERY long time and Discord was the one that finally killed it for me. We’ll see if it lasts. I guess if they kill themselves (and they keep trying to), IRC will still be there waiting. Used to be on Rizon!

      • @[email protected]
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        22 years ago

        Discord is sooo awful imo. Every server has annoying “rule bots” or people constantly changing the look/feel of the channels or trying to engage you with @all or @channel (which you can ignore but it’s still annoying)… even the more technical ones have the same vibe. IRC is so much easier to communicate in IMO.

    • @[email protected]
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      62 years ago

      I hadn’t been on irc in over a decade. The issue is I don’t know anymore where anyone actually hangs out. Sure there are plenty of niche servers for software projects but as a general use sort of thing I really don’t know where to start again.

      • @[email protected]
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        32 years ago

        Usenet and freenet haven’t changed at all. /List to list servers. Scroll until u find what u want Cake

        • @[email protected]
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          22 years ago

          Usenet has changed a little. Everyone ignores the first rule of Usenet now. Granted it was getting to be a rundown joke, but anyone will talk about Usenet. Secondly, the backbones have been pruned back quite a bit. Another thing about that is which backbone you use matters more as DCMA takedowns happen differently depending on not only the company, but country too. Differences in laws obviously, and the manner in which they are handled directly impacts your file (or logs). A NA backbone server might have automated takedown requests, whilst a Euro server may require the request in writing. Having accounts in more than one backbone is quite beneficial. Block account for fill or whatever.

          With regards to companies, some US companies have been buying European ones which potentially makes using that backbone/server more tenuous. I don’t think I’ve experienced any issues from that, but it might be impossible for me to know. Unless I get…dundundunnn…The Letter.

        • teft
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          12 years ago

          I would think dalnet is still up. Those fuckers are like cockroaches. Only a nuke will take them out.

  • Jake Farm
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    262 years ago

    Group chats were for sharing before social media. It just out lasted them.

  • @[email protected]
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    2 years ago

    I still visit Reddit but I no longer engage in any way, other than reading comments. No up/down voting, not commenting, no reporting spam. Nothing but reading with multiple layers of ad-blocking.

    PS: the overall quality/value has dropped precipitously

    • Tygr
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      212 years ago

      I deleted all 6 of my accounts. I can’t upvote or comment and I like it that way. Reddit no longer values me as a content producer by eliminating my fav apps, so I no longer value Reddit.

      • @[email protected]
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        I have used it just a handful of times where adding “Reddit” to the end of a search would get me what I was looking for - usually “peer reviewed” options on some topic.

        1 time I went for commentary on a niche reality tv show to feel validated in my hate for the designated villain.

        I am not logged in and don’t interact any further

    • @[email protected]
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      I deleted my main Reddit account but still find myself going back there occasionally for specific topics. For example, I haven’t found a good place on Lemmy to ask travel questions.

      • Takatakatakatakatak
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        102 years ago

        place on Lemmy to ask travel questions.

        Good luck. One poster would ask if you like sex and travel, then tell you to “Go and get fucked.”

        Another would accuse you of being a bourgeois lib who is killing the planet with your capitalist excesses.

        Another would go on a rant about privilege and how your very ability to ask such questions in a public space speaks to your total lack class consciousness and your ignorance of “The Movement” or something like it.

        In short, check out Vang Vieng in Laos and have a great time.