• @[email protected]
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    548 days ago

    I saw a girl on tiktok say something similar about how after a shit day at work she will look at hinge and be even further upset about the people who have liked her on hinge, as though this is all she deserves in life.

    It sounds extremely depressing out there these days.

    • @[email protected]
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      158 days ago

      That sounds very entitled of her. She can choose whom to like back. And if she isn’t happy with the options she has, she can go swipe on her own.

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      8 days ago

      Let’s be honest, most men that use dating apps are those looking for hookups. So if you’re a woman looking for tge same then go ahead but you’re not gonna find a long term partner there unless if you’re one of the lucky few

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        178 days ago

        None of the men I know that are using the apps are looking for hookups. There are many such men, but there are lots of people looking for other stuff as well.

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            138 days ago

            What do you possibly base this on, the idea that men only care about sex and can’t want relationships?

              • Lightor
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                28 days ago

                Didn’t answer what you’re basing it on though.

                • stebo
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                  18 days ago

                  if you use these apps as a woman you’d know

                  • Lightor
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                    15 days ago

                    Just not answering the question and throwing out vague nonsense. I can do that too.

                    You’ll understand better when you get older.

          • Lightor
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            38 days ago

            Same with my male friends. I also met my wife on an app. This might be more of a you experience thing.

            • stebo
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              18 days ago

              I also met my wife on an app.

              ok so you’re one of those lucky few

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              28 days ago

              Same with my guy friends as well. I met my wife on a dating app, and a couple of my friends did as well.

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        208 days ago

        I don’t know a lot of people that use dating apps but in my anecdotal experience all the male friends I know that use them are actually looking for a good long-term relationship. But you’re probably right that they are a minority.