A friend and I (both 30yo males) are thinking of getting our pictures taken with the Easter bunny while wearing overalls and a propeller hat. my sister says it’ll be immature and that if I were to show a girl they would immediately be turned off.
We feel it’ll be funny and a good ice breaker with girls or anyone else for that matter. But now I’m kinda questioning it.
More immature than asking strangers for their opinion?
If a hypothetical girl really would be “turned off” by you enjoying being yourself, then you probably wouldn’t be able to build a loving relationship with them anyways. Don’t forget to give the Easter Bunny a copy as well!
Illl be sure to sign it
To Janice
Best Wishes
Roger Moore
This is the kind of thing I call a “loser filter”. It stops the kind of people you don’t want to deal with from entering your life in the first place.
Many would find it stupid, but those people don’t share your sense of humor and you would never get along with them in the first place.
So go and put the picture, it will help weed out people you don’t want to waste your time with. You’ll only get those who either don’t mind or who actually think it’s funny too.
Any girl who can’t appreciate that picture is not worth pursuing
+1 for doing it. Have fun!
Do it. Don’t show a girl. Keep it for your kids before they turn 10. After 10 they don’t care shit about you. But before 10 you’re hilarious.
if I were to show a girl they would immediately be turned off.
I wouldn’t use the photo as your opening gambit, but in an album of similar photos it’s a positive, not a negative.
Unless you’re causing harm, what others might think is rarely a good enough reason not to do something you genuinely want to do.
your sister is immediately correct
Immature or not, that’s your sense of humor. If a woman has an issue with the picture, there’s a decent chance you won’t get along anyway, so in that way it would actually be a good compatibility litmus test.
Will it be funny you think? Do it.
What kind of girl do you want to attract anyway? Do you want a full l girl that thinks that kind of stuff is funny or do you want a girl that finds it immature?
Do it. Who cares what girls think! But if you’re trying to attract one then maybe wait a bit before showing her the dumb shit you like doing with your mates.
It’s totally immature.
If that’s something you think you’ll have fun doing, I fully recommend it!
If a woman i wanted to date didn’t find me funny when i do goofy shit, then she would quickly become a woman i dont want to date.
I can be immature without that being my whole personality. I am mature when it’s appropriate and immature when it’s appropriate.
Just be yourself. You dont want to lock it all away to be in a relationship with someone who can’t laugh at a well-timed fart.
The world needs more silliness and whimsy. Don’t be afraid to be cringe, you will be free.
You also have an obligation to share the image when you take it.
