So, this is from a while ago, before I dated my S/O David. Maybe around last year then. I (at the time 16-17F) was dating Benji (at the time 16M).

There was this one guy I was starting to become friends with. I’ll call him Carl. Carl looked around old enough to be married at least, but he said he was actually 17 and he was just younger than he looked.

Keep in mind that since I was dating Benji, I didn’t want anything romantic between me and Carl even if Benji and I were in an open relationship. However, Carl just wanted sex from me and kept begging to date me and “ditch my boyfriend for him”. He would get mad and try to guilt-trip me when I said no. He said “I broke his heart”.

There were also some red flags. He had a girlfriend when we were first friends (which I didn’t know at the time) and he kept flirting with me. He also then announced that he broke up with his girlfriend because she had a mental illness, which is how I found out. Not to mention he wondered what I smelled like and such, oddly. I blocked him.

People have called me a “cheating whore” though even when i explicitly said I didn’t wanna date him and blocked im when he kept asking. So, AITA?